What’s up dear readers,
I have been pondering upon this topic for the past few days, and it always fascinates me how this thing called “Attraction” works. A lot of self-confessed gurus have tried to define ATTRACTION. Don’t worry, I’m not here to do that haha. The truth is.. the ‘what’ of attraction can never be fully deciphered. There are so many different possible types and scenarios, that it is not important to know the definition.
Knowing the definition will not help you.. Instead, understanding HOW it works and using it to your advantage will help you gain awareness of yourself and of women.
One of the mindsets we teach at Maverick Man is: “She likes me already“
This means that, as long as she is still talking you, she likes you. Neither does she hate nor find you repulsive, cause if she did, she wouldn’t even bother listening to anything you have to say. Think about it for a moment. I want you to imagine the person whom you hate, an enemy that you have. If you bumped into him/her along Orchard Road one day, what are the chances that you will even bother to say hi? Heck, you might even walk faster to avoid that person. If that person came up to you, I’m willing to bet that you wouldn’t even give him/her the light of day. (If you don’t agree, drop me a PM cause I’d like to meet you and let you talk to my enemies )
What I am saying is, in the dating context: As long as a woman is talking to you, SHE LIKES YOU!
Don’t make it any more complicated for yourself than many people already do!
Here’s an analogy I have, it is rated from 0-2:
0 – No
1 – Maybe
2 – Yes
How does this work, you might ask. This numbers shows your value in the eyes of a woman. The highest you can aim to be is obviously number 2, a YES. This is how she see’s you as a prospective partner.
If she hates you and won’t even bother talking to you, you are a ZERO in her eyes.
THE GOOD NEWS IS..
It is very difficult to be a zero (I’m not saying that you should strive to be that lol).
The good news is that, as long as you are talking to a woman and she is talking to you,
you are a 1 – Maybe
Always remember: A maybe is good enough.
From there, as you both progress in the interaction and enjoy each others’ company, you can strive to be more than a maybe in her eyes, and she will work hard to ensure that she is good enough in your eyes too.
That’s all for now gentlemen, thanks for reading. If you like my articles, drop a comment in the box below. And as always, share this link with someone whom you think it will be useful for. Spread the love!
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Laveen a.k.a ‘Romantic Rogue’
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