Only 2 genders exist in the world: Men & Women. Since the beginning of time, God created Adam and Eve.
If you are not an Eve, you are an Adam.
Men –> Are born to LEAD.
Women –> Are wired to be LED.
There is a saying: “Male by birth, Man by choice”
Guys, LISTEN UP. The biggest mistake men make right after they’ve gotten that elusive phone number is that they do not FOLLOW-UP well!
Sure, you’ve put in the ‘work’ to finally get her number.
Here’s the truth: getting a woman’s phone number doesn’t mean shit.
Here’s how it usually goes:
1. Man talks to Woman
2. Man gets a woman’s phone #
3. Instead of contacting her immediately, he waits 2-3 days.
4. Finally, he contacts her. Guess what? She doesn’t answer, can’t remember which dude you were, flakes on your 1st meeting.
As a man, you need to ask her out.
You need to take the LEAD.
You don’t wait “2 or 3 days” to contact her just because you read it somewhere (or you ‘don’t wanna come across too needy’).
If you like her, contact her whenever you want. If you wait, she’s gonna think that you’re not interested. You are gonna make her wonder what happened. She’ll ask her friends what went wrong, she’ll think about it.
She’ll doubt herself, she’ll doubt you. She’ll be worried that you’re just another guy who’s out to ‘play’ her.
She’ll wonder: “He seemed so interested but his actions aren’t, so is he?”
When you meet a woman & get her contact information. Don’t wait. Build that momentum. Ask her out the next time the both of you are free.
Remember: KEEP IT SIMPLE.
Here’s the truth. Dating is all about MOMENTUM.
I want you to think for a minute about all your great relationships & dates you’ve had in the past. The one reason it worked is because there was MOMENTUM.
Women are all about momentum.
Hollywood’s best Romantic movies are all about momentum;
Man meets woman at Starbucks. They have a great conversation. They exchange phone numbers. He calls her the next day to ask about her day. He set’s up a date over the phone. They meet up, she doesn’t flake. They have a great time on the date. At the end of the 1st date, he sets up a 2nd one with her the next week. They meet up again. They eventually establish a great relationship and are happy together.
See where this is going? It’s a love story waiting to happen.
Push past your fears, GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD and create that magical story between you and that dream girl of yours.
She wants to be swept off her feet. If not you, then who?
- Laveen a.k.a Romantic Rogue
Chief Executive Coach,