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Leaving Graciously & Avoiding Instant Gratification

25 January 2012 | No Comments » | Laveen

Good morning gentlemen,

This is something that has been on my mind since last night. Ever since I had this thought, I have shared it in person with 2 of my top alumni as we were having breakfast together. Coincidentally, another one of them called me this morning to seek advice to a certain dilemma he was facing, because he was seeing a girl and she was giving mixed signals and acting conservative around him half of the time. His dilemma was whether he should just drop all contact with her, although deep down he wanted to pursue something more. I then shared with him about this topic, and I am glad it helped him clear up his thoughts. :)

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When you meet a woman, sometimes, she might not always be available (she might have a boyfriend, she might be seeing someone exclusively, she might be going thru a bad time in her relationship/ going through a break-up, be emotionally unavailable). The thing about most guys is that, once they find out that she might have the above, they immediately become indifferent towards her. 

 

The lesson here is: Don’t always be after Instant Gratification (in dating). Always look Long-Term! Think outside the box & look at the big-picture!

She might not be available now, but leaving graciously and accepting the fact that it’s not the right time now will almost guarantee that you will stand out, and be one of the 1st men that she thinks of the moment she becomes available.

Also, it is always useful to have female allies. Who knows, the next time you bump into her, even if she still has a boyfriend.. she will introduce you to her hot, sexy friend(s) of hers. 

Keep that in mind the next time you meet an ‘unavailable’ woman :)

MINDSET#1: have Zen-like patience

MINDSET#2: always look at the Big (Macro) picture. eyes on the prize!

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Till the next post, have a great week ahead gentlemen,

Laveen aka Romantic Rogue ;)

Dating #101 tip for Men: “Don’t put women on a pedestal”

15 January 2012 | No Comments » | Laveen

Dating #101 tip for Men: Don’t put women on a pedestal. Treat beautiful women like how you would the old lady at the supermarket.

You wouldn’t have to ‘take her off her pedestal’ if you didn’t put her there in the first place.

Women are people too. :)

If you treat a beautiful woman normally and she reacts coldly.. It’s most likely cause she feels uncomfortable with herself, she is not used to being treated this way. It’s not you, so don’t take it personally.

P.S.: I am not saying that you should treat a woman nastily to get her attention. If you do & she opens up to you receptively, then congrats.. you’ve got yourself an insecure woman while being untrue to yourself.

 
Sincerely,

Laveen a.k.a Romantic Rogue

Chief Executive Coach, Maverick Man

Maverick Man Vision for 2012 (1st Quarter)

4 January 2012 | No Comments » | Laveen

Welcome, dear readers!

It’s already the forth day of 2012. Seemed like only a few hours ago that I celebrated my New Years’ Eve countdown by the marina at a private party in Sentosa Cove (what happened then, is another story for another day ;) ).

Before I talk about what you can expect from the Maverick Man establishment in 2012, I would like to take this opportunity to thank each and every one of you who made 2011 my best year yet. I ended the year on a high (both literally & figuratively), having successfully organized & attended the “Inaugural Maverick Man Year-End Party & Awards/ Promotions Congress 2011″ that was held at Marina Bay, overlooking the entire CBD.

It was an amazing night with great food, views, music & of course.. great company. This was a closed-door, alumni-only private party where private videos were screened, and all the alumni’s stories of the past year were spilled. Having had April 10th (another milestone in the Maverick Man alumni establishment), this night would be etched in the memories and history books of my alumni & I as ‘December 30th’..

 

Awards for the Night

Within the past 12 months, so many things have happened. In that time alone, some of the places I had the opportunity to travel to were places such as Taipei, Bangkok & Kanchanaburi in Thailand, Hong Kong, Macau, Shenzen & Foshan in China. I have been earning my ranks as a dating coach, taking on more clients day-by-day. I believe that being good at meeting women is one thing, and being a good teacher to others is another talent altogether. Being able to change someone’s life is powerful, and fulfilling beyond words. It is something that I have truly enjoyed, and will continue to do so!

3 years ago when I first started, if anyone had told me that I would be living the kinda life that I have now, I would have been thankful towards them for believing in me more than I did :P , but in no way would I have imagined that it was possible.

I have gone from someone who was clueless & unable to even talk with women (having been from an all-boys school till I was 19), to where I am now;  having met and dated women of many different nationalities and personalities. To me, it is not about dating a large number of women, but more so the ABILITY & POWER OF  CHOICE to do so and date the women that I WANT. My goal at the start has always been to establish Quality relationships with women, to be able to sweep a woman off her feet in the most romantic, fleeting way possible. For her to fall head over heels in love with me, and me with her… Just like the most romantic Hollywood movies. Hence, my nickname, the Romantic Rogue ;) (my full background can be found at my ‘About Me’.)

Being a successful ladies’ man isn’t just about being good with women. It is about being a QUALITY MAN who is good with life, and with people. Quality men will naturally and effortlessly be attractive to women. (Quality Man = Quality Woman). In the wise words of a certain superhero.. “With great power comes great responsibility” ;) .

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Here at Maverick Man, we equip men of all ages & walks of life with the necessary mindsets & knowledge to meet and date the women of their dreams!

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I have traveled and honed my training & coaching skills in countries such as Taipei, Bangkok & Hong Kong city.. during the yearly Maverick WORLD DOMINATION programs. Those were good times, and I am looking forward to the next WORLD DOMINATION program in Taipei in June 2012! For those who are interested to know more about it, drop me an email and I will send you a free program package, cause I am only opening up only 1 slot to the general public (non-Maverick alumni) for the upcoming Taiwan trip!

Our ever-growing alumni establishment does not lie. Besides getting their dating & love lives handled, these men (ranging from students, doctors, consultants, bankers, actors, marketers etc) have made a COMMITTMENT to develop themselves to becoming the best men that they can be in other areas such as; lifestyle (Maverick Lifestyle), fitness (Maverick Fitness), careers etc. That, in itself, is the habit a champion!

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Maverick Man Vision for 2012:

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So, what can you expect in the coming months? First of all, January 2012 will be the official launch of Maverick Movement. The theme for the first 3 months of Maverick Man will be:

ESTABLISHING AN ATTRACTIVE IDENTITY ;)

On the Maverick Man (dating) front, expect to see a FREE public seminar in the middle of this month, on 21st January 2011 (Saturday). This 3-hour seminar will be held in a central location in town. My fellow coach Xavier and I will be sharing lessons and fundamentals of effortlessly meeting women. You will learn the foundations, mindsets, awareness lessons of dating & relationships.. and much more! Valentine’s Day is fast approaching, in less than 5 weeks.

At the end of January, our alumni can expect the next Maverick Member’s Congress, and also the next Lifestyle Activity which takes place at the end of every month. This time, we will be headed outdoors to Pulau Ubin!  The last lifestyle activity we had was Mangrove Swamp kayaking around the island (including catching snakes, being bitten by swimming centipedes lol).. I’ll let the pictures do the talking, enjoy! ;)

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In February 2012, watch out for the upcoming “Valentine’s Day” special Masterclass coming up from 3-5 February 2012, at a VERY special price. This Masterclass will have an added module geared specifically towards helping you get your dream date in time for Valentine’s Day.

Also, the Maverick Man coaches have been engaged to conduct & facilitate a Valentine’s Day program on board a cruise ship during in the days leading up to V-day itself, so I am definitely looking forward to that!

Our esteemed alumni can expect another Lifestyle activity at the last week of February 2012. This time, I have plans to give back to the community with a volunteer program and get our alumni involved.

For my dear readers, you are not forgotten! You can expect to see more foundational & advanced articles, videos, pictures and of course.. reports & adventures from the field. (expect nothing less than the best)

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In the next post…

I will be dropping an article for all of you guys who have been emailing me asking me to address a certain topic/issue that you’ve faced. I will also answer any questions that you have, so go ahead and email me at laveen@maverick-movement.com . I will pick a few questions of the most pressing questions and address them in the next post! :)

More details of the upcoming FREE seminar & Valentine’s Day Masterclass will also be given in my next post, so stay tuned!

Until then, thanks for reading and I look forward to reading through all your questions. See you in a few days ! :)

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Signing off,

Laveen aka Romantic Rogue

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Of Highpoints, Dimensions & Creating A Universe between you & your woman

2 January 2012 | No Comments » | Laveen

Hey readers,

 

A few things that has been etched in my mind in the past day:

 

HIGHPOINTS

Don’t go looking for it. It will come naturally, learn to recognise them and either: LEAD, or LEAVE

(this will allow you to come back on another highpoint. And she will look forward to your next move. Leaves her coming back for more ;) .. TRUE STORY, OVER AND OVER AGAIN. It also creates anticipation. Leaving on Highpoints also gets you used to walking away, relates to non-neediness)


HAVING DIMENSIONS

(related to Push-Pull)

Being one dimensional and behaving the same way towards her is predictable. You cannot possibly be ‘warm’ to her all the time, or ‘cold’ to her all the time. Push-Pull creates confusion in her. Remember: “The one being confused is the one being led”.

Having dimensions to your personality means having different sides, like a six-sided dice. You convey your different personalties at different times, and each dimension conveys certain character traits. Having a great LIFESTYLE helps greatly in showing your different dimensions.

Solution: Be certain (CERTAINTY Attribute!) & Be real. 
(real people have multiple moods and dimensions, and also creates unpredictability.. which naturally creates excitement within her.)

 

 

CREATE A UNIVERSE OF YOU & HER

Make everything that you do about you and your woman. Create a little ‘universe’ of you & her. This is also called making it personal.

MINDSET: Women are teammates!

HELP HER TO HELP YOU! Examples are giving each other nicknames that only you both know. Women LOVE these kinda little ‘universes’. Make her feel special.

Making it personal also enables you to paint a picture in here mind (of what is to come). Once you do that, her mind will go crazy in anticipation & excitement.. TRUST ME ;)
She will be looking forward, instead of rejecting your thoughts/ advances.

 

Signing Off,

Romantic Rogue